Couple's Mealtime Argument Over 700 NT Dollars Sparks Debate on Values and Independence

An argument between a couple at the popular Taiwanese teahouse Chun Shui Tang, reportedly over a 700 NT dollar meal, has ignited a debate online after the woman was seen crying due to her boyfriend's complaints.

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The issue is these three words: 'values'.

Internet personality Chen Yi weighed in on the incident, identifying the core issue as a difference in "values." She suggested that if one partner finds the cost excessive, they might be well-suited for each other, as value judgments are subjective and depend on individual acceptance.

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Value judgments inherently have no right or wrong, it just depends on whether you can accept it.

Chen Yi elaborated on her own perspective, stating that she prioritizes avoiding waste but is comfortable with significant spending when necessary, acknowledging that definitions of "need" vary. She contrasted her preference for public transport with others who might opt for comfort like ride-sharing services.

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If she isn't spending your money, where she happily spends her money is entirely her freedom; there's no need to overthink it, unless she's wasting your money, then you can have an opinion.

Furthermore, Chen Yi expressed willingness to spend up to 10,000 NT dollars for a fine dining experience, contrasting with those who might prioritize simply being full. She stressed that differing values are crucial in relationships. "If she isn't spending your money, where she happily spends her money is entirely her freedom; there's no need to overthink it, unless she's wasting your money, then you can have an opinion," Chen Yi stated. She concluded by emphasizing the importance of women achieving economic independence to avoid relying on others' approval for their financial decisions.

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Conclusion is, women must be economically independent, so they don't have to rely on others' faces.