Croatian man shares harsh reality of life in Germany: 'I brought my wife and child, now we barely survive'

A Croatian man who moved to Germany with his wife and child six months ago is struggling to make ends meet, detailing his financial and emotional challenges in a Facebook group for "Life in Germany."

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I brought my wife and child, and now we are barely surviving.

He reported earning 1800 euros per month, with 1100 euros going to rent and an additional 300 euros for kindergarten. This leaves little for other essential expenses. The family also faces emotional strain, as his child is having trouble adapting due to language barriers, and his wife cannot find employment without knowing German.

While some commenters expressed optimism that the child would adapt and learn the language in kindergarten, others suggested cost-saving measures, like temporarily withdrawing the child from kindergarten. Several users pointed out potential financial assistance programs available in Germany, including housing subsidies (Wohngeld), kindergarten co-funding, and child benefits (Kindergeld). They recommended contacting institutions like the Jugendamt or local authorities for guidance and forms, or seeking help from organizations such as Caritas.

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The family could be eligible for additional benefits such as housing subsidies (Wohngeld), co-financing of kindergarten, and child benefits (Kindergeld).

However, some comments were critical, emphasizing the need for better preparation, particularly regarding language skills and financial planning, before relocating to another country. The article highlights the difficult reality many face when moving abroad for a better standard of living, often encountering unforeseen obstacles.

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Better preparation is needed for moving to another country, especially regarding language and financial planning.