I celebrate divorce when marriages become unbearable, says Bovi
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At a glance
- Nigerian comedian Bovi Ugboma supports divorce in unhealthy marriages, viewing it as a relief.
- He shared that his own 17-year marriage has faced difficulties, despite his positive outlook on divorce.
- Bovi also advocated for recognizing women's financial contributions to households.
Nigerian stand-up comedian and actor Bovi Ugboma believes divorce can be a positive outcome when marriages become unhealthy. He expressed this view on a recent episode of The Morayo Show, stating that ending a troubled union is often better than remaining in an unhappy relationship.
I celebrate when people get divorced because I feel it means one or both people were not breathing well in the marriage. I will not suffer anybody, nor will I want anybody to suffer me.
"I celebrate when people get divorced because I feel it means one or both people were not breathing well in the marriage. I will not suffer anybody, nor will I want anybody to suffer me," Bovi said. He sees divorce as a form of relief for couples who are no longer thriving together.
However, Bovi clarified that his perspective does not dismiss the inherent challenges of marriage. Reflecting on his own 17-year marriage, which began when he was 29, he admitted it has not been easy. "I have been providing for 17 years nonstop," he shared, referencing the traditional expectation for men to be providers.
That is not to say my marriage has been easy for 17 years. It has not. I got married at 29. I have been providing for 17 years nonstop.
He also touched upon women's financial contributions, encouraging them to pursue ambitions and achieve financial independence. Bovi emphasized that women who contribute financially to their households should have their efforts acknowledged and respected. "If a womanโs passion drives her to provide, her contributions should be recognised and respected," he added.
If a womanโs passion drives her to provide, her contributions should be recognised and respected.
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