'I left a children's home – and was embraced by love'

For many young people aging out of the care system, the transition to adulthood can feel like stepping off a cliff. But for 18-year-old Poppie, a government-funded initiative has provided a vital lifeline, connecting her with a chosen family after leaving a children's home.

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I have no-one else, so to feel part of a family after leaving care is making a huge difference.

Poppie entered care at age 10 and spent years in children's homes before turning 18. With no contact with her birth family, the prospect of independence was daunting. However, Brigitte Marshall, 58, and her son Reuben, 24, who had served as her support workers at the care home, stepped in. They now provide Poppie with consistent support, accompanying her to appointments and helping her navigate college choices.

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It means so much having Brigitte and her family in my life

"It means so much having Brigitte and her family in my life," Poppie shared. She now attends family barbecues and social events, feeling embraced by love and a sense of belonging. She even affectionately calls Brigitte "mummy Brigitte." This connection was facilitated by the 'Finding Family' program, which assigned a coordinator to help foster the bond between Poppie and the Marshall family.

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The thought of her leaving and being all on her own when she left care was shocking

Brigitte expressed her concern about young people leaving care without adequate support, describing it as "shocking." She emphasized the need for more than just practical assistance with housing and finance, stating, "I just wanted her to feel valued, loved and supported." The program, piloted since 2023, also assisted 20-year-old Mackenzie, who reconnected with his wider family after years in care, finding a "safe space" to rebuild relationships.

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I just wanted her to feel valued, loved and supported.