Love Story: Reconnecting with the One That Got Away

Carlie Davies shares her "Love Story" about reconnecting with Shannon Giles, her teenage crush, after twenty years apart. Their initial connection happened in 1995 when Shannon was a bit older and had already left high school. They were each other's date for the year 11 formal, and Carlie remembers being proud of the dress she made. Though they spent a lot of time together with friends, partying, and hooking up occasionally, they were never in a "proper relationship." Carlie reflects that they "always held a candle for each other" despite their lives taking different directions. In her mid-20s, Carlie met her ex-partner. While initially not wanting children, Carlie's feelings changed, leading to a difficult period in her relationship. She eventually parted ways with her ex, determined to have a child alone if necessary, as she was 36. Around the time Facebook became popular, Carlie reconnected with Shannon online. They maintained contact, and she noticed he had two children. They would occasionally meet for coffee when he visited her town. When both were single, their communication increased, leading to a rekindled romantic connection. Carlie expressed her desire for a baby, and they decided to pursue a relationship. Carlie moved to Melbourne to be with Shannon, and within a few months of stopping birth control, she became pregnant. She gave birth to their daughter, Rowan, at age 39. Carlie emphasizes that they "never stopped loving each other" and are glad they lived their own lives before coming together. She also expresses happiness in becoming a mother later in life and cherishes watching the world through her daughter's eyes.

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He was my year 11 formal partner (in 1995). I remember being very proud that night, because I made my dress.