Proposal to raise wedding gift money sparks backlash: 'Why try to fund weddings with others' money?'

A recent online discussion in South Korea about raising the standard amount for wedding gift money has ignited a fierce debate, with many criticizing the suggestion.

The controversy began when a user on an online community suggested increasing the customary gift from 100,000 won to 150,000 won. The user argued that with rising buffet costs, the lower amount is insufficient. They claimed that after covering the 60,000-70,000 won meal cost, the remaining 30,000-40,000 won from a 100,000 won gift is not enough to offset other wedding expenses, stating, "I don't want to get married at a loss."

However, the post was met with widespread criticism. Many netizens argued that weddings should be financed by the couple themselves, not by relying on guests' contributions. One commenter emphasized that guests attend to celebrate the marriage, not simply to pay for a meal. The backlash highlights a cultural tension between the tradition of gift-giving and the financial realities faced by couples and their guests.