Psychologist: The 'spoiled only child' stereotype is outdated, but parents should still teach respect for others' time

The perception that only children are inherently spoiled and selfish is a notion that psychologist John Halse aims to debunk. He argues that this view, which suggests they receive excessive parental attention and become overprotected, does not align with contemporary reality.

Halse, an expert in family and social psychology, points out that unlike in the past, most children today engage in early social development through daycare and preschool before starting formal schooling. This exposure to peers and structured group environments helps them learn to interact with others and develop social skills beyond the immediate family circle.

While acknowledging that there are both advantages and disadvantages to being an only child, Halse emphasizes that the positive aspects can be maximized. He offers advice for parents, suggesting ways to ensure that only children learn to respect the time and attention of others. This involves fostering an understanding that others are not always available solely for their needs and encouraging empathy and consideration for those around them.