Serendipitous gifts are all around us: The invisible threads connecting Israelis in times of loss

In a poignant reflection on connection and memory, the author recounts a chance encounter that bridged cultural divides and touched upon personal history. While driving to buy a yahrzeit candle for her late mother, the author saw six women in colorful saris along the roadside in Efrat. These women were caregivers from India, waiting for a Purim party at a senior day center.

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Are you all from India?

The author shared with them that her mother had worn a silk sari gifted by her father, who served in India during World War II. This sari had been a cherished item, even used at the weddings of the author's daughters. The author expressed her admiration for the caregivers, calling them "heroines," drawing a parallel to a character in her theater show who saved her mistress during the Oct. 7 attacks.

This encounter is framed as a "serendipitous gift," highlighting the invisible threads that connect people, especially during times of loss. The author, who previously taught creative writing at the senior center, observed the loving care provided by caregivers from various backgrounds.

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You, too, are all heroines.

In a separate anecdote, the author recalls attending a dinner honoring Rabbi Adin Steinsaltz. As a journalist, she was introduced to Joelle Aflalo, a founding member of the Matanel Foundation. During their interview, Aflalo expressed a strong affinity for "women's projects," a sentiment that resonated with the author, who leads a theater group focused on women's stories.

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I love women’s projects.