Taiwanese actor details elaborate birthday surprise for wife, highlighting marital 'ritual'

Actor Wu Dong-yan highlighted the enduring importance of "sense of ritual" in his decade-long marriage to Bai Chia-ling, sharing intimate details on the variety show "Oh Yeah! Superb." Wu emphasized that regardless of how long a couple has been together, maintaining romantic gestures is crucial for a strong relationship.

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Regardless of how many years we've been dating or married, a sense of ritual is very important.

He recounted how he secretly contacted his wife's sisters to coordinate surprise birthday trips. Wu meticulously handled all arrangements, including booking flights and hotels, to create a memorable experience for Bai Chia-ling. His efforts were lauded by fellow guest Yang Hao-ru, who praised his attentiveness as a father, noting his proactive care for their son without needing prompting.

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He is so young and handsome, and he does these things proactively without needing to be told. It makes you feel quite bitter.

During the discussion on marital dynamics, singer Ou Hansheng (Ou Di) shared his experiences with parenting conflicts, recalling a disagreement with his wife over their child's academic pressure. Comedian Zhao Zhengping spoke about his approach to financial support, detailing his wife's unrestricted use of credit cards and his provision of a generous monthly allowance, which included arranging a 45-day stay at a luxury postpartum care center.

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Why must they keep up with others? I regretted it later, as it would put more pressure on the child, making them feel like they caused their parents to argue.