Whangārei father's final message of love and kindness to son shared

A heartfelt final message from a Northland father to his son, delivered as he faced terminal brain cancer, has been shared posthumously. Shane Nicholas, who died in June 2025 at the age of 46, left behind words of profound love and advice for his child.

Nicholas was diagnosed with a brain tumor just months prior to his passing. Despite the devastating news, he focused on imparting wisdom to his son. His final words, shared by Denise Piper of the Northern Advocate, are a poignant reminder of the importance of connection and compassion.

"Surround yourself with your friends and family like a korowai, hold them tight ... Be kind. Be really, really kind to everyone," Nicholas advised his son. The metaphor of a korowai, a traditional Māori cloak, evokes a sense of warmth, protection, and belonging, urging his son to cherish and rely on his support network.

Nicholas's message underscores the enduring power of family and the simple yet profound impact of kindness, even in the face of life's greatest challenges. His final words serve as a lasting legacy, offering guidance and comfort to his son.

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Surround yourself with your friends and family like a korowai, hold them tight ... Be kind. Be really, really kind to everyone.