A 15-point checklist could make household chores easier to share
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At a glance
- Family disputes often stem from one adult carrying too much of the household work and planning.
- An expert recommends a 15-point list that makes visible both chores and mental responsibilities, such as planning meals and children’s activities.
- The article says fair sharing does not necessarily mean dividing every task exactly equally.
Repeated arguments over shopping, wiping the kitchen counter or managing children’s activity calendars may have a common cause: household work and the planning behind it weigh disproportionately on one adult.
Tatjana Pajamäki of the Mannerheim League for Child Welfare advises families not to agree only on who goes shopping. They should also define whether that responsibility includes planning the week’s meals. The same principle applies to other forms of mental work that often remain invisible.
Do not agree only on who goes shopping, but also on whether responsibility for shopping includes thinking about the week’s meals.
Rather than arranging the division of labor one day at a time, the article recommends creating an everyday task list. Once the work becomes visible, families can divide it more fairly. The list does not require every task to be split exactly equally, Pajamäki says.
Household chores should not be divided completely equally.
Originally published by Helsingin Sanomat in Finnish. Translated, summarized, and contextualized automatically by DistantNews, with a note on how the source frames the story. Not individually reviewed before publishing. How this works.