ADHD or Spoiling? The Signs That Make the Difference and That Every Parent Should Know

An increasing number of children are being diagnosed with ADHD, a complex disorder frequently mistaken for a lack of upbringing or simple naughtiness. Specialists emphasize that parents should be aware of several key warning signs. Globally, an estimated 5% to 8% of children have been diagnosed with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), a neurodevelopmental condition characterized by challenges in focusing, excessive activity, and impulsive behavior. While often identified in childhood, its symptoms can persist into adulthood.

ADHD is not a behavioral issue but a difference in how the brain processes information, stemming from neurobiological factors like neurotransmitter imbalances, particularly dopamine. Genetics play a significant role, as do intrauterine conditions and birth complications, such as fetal distress or prematurity. Contrary to some beliefs, ADHD is not caused by excessive screen time, poor parenting, or high sugar intake, though these factors can exacerbate symptoms according to recent studies.

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Many parents refuse to come to us because they are not 'crazy'.

Boys are more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD than girls, with figures showing a higher prevalence. The rise in diagnoses in recent years is attributed to improved diagnostic methods, greater awareness among parents and educators, and better access to specialists. However, the condition still presents many challenges, as its symptoms can overlap with those of behavioral disorders stemming from inadequate parenting or social issues.

In countries like Romania, children face the risk of being under- or over-diagnosed, often by parents, teachers, or society at large, without proper consultation with a specialist. The stigma associated with seeking psychiatric help remains a significant barrier in Romanian society. Dr. Laura Jijie, a leading pediatric psychiatrist, highlighted these issues, noting that many parents are reluctant to seek help, fearing a "crazy" label. She explained that ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder, and misinterpretations by parents who dismiss a child's behavior as mere "spoiling" or "restlessness" contribute to underdiagnosis, with some parents refusing to visit specialists due to societal stigma.

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ADHD is a neurodevelopmental disorder. Sometimes it can be underdiagnosed, especially when the parent considers that child is just spoiled, restless and that 'all children are the same'. So, for the parent it is not a problem. Many refuse to come to us because they are not 'crazy'. They are afraid that they might be labeled.