Former journalist shares life with HIV, challenging stigma and finding unexpected support

Edi Kiseljak, a former journalist for Nova TV, has bravely stepped forward to share his life with HIV, embarking on a mission to challenge stigma and foster greater acceptance. His public disclosure, including an appearance on the show "Nedjeljom u 2" and the release of his book "Ja sam Edi" (I am Edi), aims to give voice to the thousands who live with the virus, often in fear and shame.

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Možda su me najviše iznenadili upravo oni koji u prošlosti nisu skrivali svoje homofobne stavove, ljudi kojima je smetalo to što sam u braku s muškarcem, što dijelimo zajedničke fotografije na društvenim mrežama, koji su znali govoriti da se moram sramiti toga što sam. Zato mi je danas nevjerojatno čitati njihove poruke podrške,

Two months after his public statement, Kiseljak reports a significant increase in meaningful connections. He has met numerous people through book signings and social media, many of whom confide their intimate stories, fears, and struggles. Kiseljak finds deep fulfillment in helping others feel less alone, emphasizing that the true purpose of his book is to create a space for shared experiences and mutual understanding.

Perhaps the most surprising aspect of his journey has been the outpouring of support from individuals who previously expressed homophobic sentiments. Kiseljak notes that these same people, who once criticized his marriage to a man and their public displays of affection, are now sending messages of support. This transformation in perspective, he believes, validates his efforts and demonstrates the power of emotional connection and honesty in overcoming prejudice.

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Želio sam ljudima približiti nas homoseksualce, pokazati da smo i mi sasvim normalni ljudi - ljudi koji vole, koji pate, koji se bore, koji žele obitelj, sigurnost i prihvaćanje, baš kao i svi drugi.

Kiseljak's goal is not to provoke or shock, but to humanize the LGBT community. He wants to show that gay individuals are "normal people" who experience love, pain, family desires, and the need for security and acceptance, just like everyone else. He observes that societal progress in accepting diversity is not spontaneous but a result of open dialogue. Kiseljak stresses the importance of discussing sexuality, mental health, HIV, and other differences that society has long ignored, believing that open conversation is key to genuine change.

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Mislim da je društvo danas ipak spremnije prihvatiti različitosti nego što je bilo prije, ali razlog tome nije što su se stvari promijenile same od sebe, nego zato što se o njima napokon počelo govoriti.