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Fulfilling a Promise to Her Son: Mother Also Decides to Donate Organs on the Same Day

From Hankyoreh · (7h ago) Korean Positive tone

Translated from Korean, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.

TLDR

  • A mother decided to register as an organ donor on the same day her son, who was declared brain-dead, donated his organs to seven recipients.
  • The son, Oh Seon-jae, had previously discussed organ donation with his mother, fulfilling a promise to give life to others after death.
  • Oh Seon-jae, who worked diligently to support his mother after his father's early death, donated his heart, lungs, liver, kidneys, and eyes.

The poignant story of Oh Seon-jae and his mother, Choi Ra-yun, exemplifies the profound spirit of life-saving generosity and familial love. Seon-jae, tragically declared brain-dead after an accident, made the ultimate gift by donating his organs, offering a new lease on life to seven individuals. His mother, Choi Ra-yun, inspired by her son's selfless act and a shared promise, chose to register as an organ donor on the very same day.

Mom, I love you.

— Oh Seon-jaeSaid to his mother upon regaining consciousness briefly after his accident.

This dual act of donation highlights a deeply ingrained cultural value in Korea that emphasizes contributing to society and finding meaning beyond one's own existence. Seon-jae, who had overcome early adversity following his father's death to become a devoted son and diligent worker, embodied this spirit. His desire to provide a comfortable life for his mother and his commitment to fulfilling their shared dream of organ donation speak volumes about his character.

My son and I used to talk about this. 'Dad left early, but just dying without meaning is pointless. Let's both sign up for organ donation someday.' We had that conversation.

— Choi Ra-yunExplaining the promise she shared with her son regarding organ donation.

Choi Ra-yun's decision to honor her son's memory and their pact is a powerful testament to her strength and love. Her words, expressing a desire for her son to be able to see the world through his donated eyes or feel life through his donated heart, reveal the depth of her grief yet also her profound acceptance and desire to perpetuate life. Her own registration as a donor signifies a continuation of this life-affirming legacy.

My son, who left us at such a young age, if he can leave behind a heart or eyes to see the world, I couldn't ask for more. Because of the promise I made with my son, I also signed up for organ donation.

— Choi Ra-yunExpressing her decision to become an organ donor in honor of her son.

While international media might focus on the tragic circumstances, the Korean perspective emphasizes the enduring power of human connection and the profound act of giving. This story resonates deeply within the community, showcasing how even in the face of immense loss, individuals can choose to create a lasting positive impact. It is a narrative of hope, love, and the remarkable capacity for altruism that defines the human spirit, offering solace and inspiration to many.

Seon-jae, I miss you so much. I don't need anything else, I just need you. Please come back to me. It was all my fault, just come back as my son. I miss you so much.

— Choi Ra-yunA tearful farewell message to her deceased son.
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Originally published by Hankyoreh in Korean. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.

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