Influencer Joeman faces accusations of lies and arguments from ex-girlfriend Xiao Yi
Translated from Chinese, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.
At a glance
- Taiwanese influencer Joeman and former girlfriend Xiao Yi are in a public dispute following their breakup.
- Xiao Yi has accused Joeman of lying throughout their relationship and shared past conversations as evidence.
- The arguments reportedly included disputes over sexual health checks and late-night requests for food.
Taiwanese influencer Joeman and former girlfriend Xiao Yi are embroiled in a public feud after their recent breakup, with Xiao Yi leveling accusations of deceit throughout their relationship. She has released screenshots of past conversations, aiming to expose what she describes as a relationship filled with lies.
Please make an appointment for me for a sexual health check-up, a full check-up.
Among the revelations, Xiao Yi shared messages where she requested Joeman arrange sexual health check-ups for them, expressing fears of contracting an illness. She questioned if this was his way of showing love and lamented that her hopes for marriage now feel hollow, looking back at their two years together.
I want beef noodles, come heat them up for me.
Further details emerged regarding a late-night argument over beef noodle soup. According to the shared messages, Joeman requested Xiao Yi heat up noodles for him at 2:39 AM. When she suggested bringing him takeout the next day, he insisted on having it immediately, even threatening to ask someone else. The exchange escalated into a dispute about her willingness to make an effort and be more romantic.
You're not willing to make any effort, can you love me more than I love you?
Joeman has since acknowledged his shortcomings in the relationship, admitting to saying immature things during arguments and expressing regret for not cherishing Xiao Yi. He stated he is reflecting on how to express love beyond material gestures, focusing on attentiveness, care, communication, and emotional support, even learning to cook as a result.
I have seriously reflected, so I am thinking about ways to express love besides money.
Originally published by Liberty Times in Chinese. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.