Marriage offered Joeman no benefits, claims ex-girlfriend Xiao Yi, citing contraception costs
Translated from Chinese, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.
At a glance
- Influencer Xiao Yi responded to questions about the benefits of marriage for her ex-boyfriend Joeman, detailing her past sacrifices.
- She claimed she bore the costs of contraception for two years, as Joeman insisted on unprotected sex.
- Xiao Yi expressed regret over her past actions and stated Joeman never protected her during their relationship.
Taiwanese influencer Xiao Yi has reignited public discussion surrounding her breakup with fellow influencer Joeman, directly addressing online queries about the advantages of marriage for him. In a recent statement, Xiao Yi detailed her extensive contributions during their relationship, asserting she gave her all without demanding material possessions or constantly checking up on him.
She recounted instances where she prioritized Joeman's emotional well-being, putting aside her own work to comfort him during difficult times and even taking over driving duties when he experienced back pain. Xiao Yi also mentioned that she never requested gifts for special occasions like birthdays or anniversaries, as Joeman was aware she valued experiences over material items. She extended empathy to Joeman's previous girlfriends, suggesting they also endured hardships and made compromises.
When asked about what the relationship brought her, Xiao Yi candidly stated, "There are no benefits to being the main wife, as I still had to hide and couldn't hold hands in public." She then shared a photo of birth control pills, revealing she had purchased them herself for two years because Joeman preferred unprotected sex. "Every time, the birth control pills were bought by myself. I regret being so foolish," she admitted, adding, "My private life is simple, but you never protected me."
Xiao Yi's revelations have sparked significant online debate. Her claims about the financial burden of contraception and Joeman's alleged insistence on unprotected sex have drawn considerable attention. The statement has amplified discussions about relationship dynamics, personal sacrifices, and the perceived lack of protection within the partnership.
Originally published by Liberty Times in Chinese. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.