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Men urged to be kind to sisters, according to Islamic teachings

From Republika · () Indonesian

Translated from Indonesian, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.

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  • Islamic teachings, particularly from Prophet Muhammad, encourage men to show compassion and affection to their sisters, especially if they are unmarried or have lost their father.
  • This protection extends to divorced sisters or those whose husbands have passed away, with brothers urged to provide support.
  • Islamic texts emphasize the reward of paradise for men who are kind to three or more daughters or sisters, and financial support for them serves as a shield from hellfire.

Islamic teachings, as expounded by Prof. Buya Hamka in his book "Buya Hamka Berbicara tentang Perempuan," strongly advocate for men to be kind and loving towards their sisters. This guidance is particularly emphasized for sisters who are unmarried or have lost their fathers, reflecting a core tenet inspired by the Prophet Muhammad.

Buya Hamka further elaborates that this responsibility extends even to sisters who are divorced or widowed. In such circumstances, their brothers are encouraged to offer protection and support. This principle is rooted in Islamic tradition, with a hadith stating that "None of you who has three daughters or three sisters, or two daughters, or two sisters, and he is good to them, except that he will enter Paradise."

Beyond immediate family, the responsibility for treating women with kindness and respect falls upon the men in their lives who adhere to faith and Islamic principles. This includes mothers, daughters, and other female relatives. Another hadith highlights the virtue of financial support, stating, "Whoever spends on his two daughters, or his two sisters, or his two relatives whom he loves, seeking reward from Allah, then Allah will suffice them and provide for them out of His bounty, will be a shield for him from the Fire of Hell."

Buya Hamka presents these teachings as clear evidence of Islam's high regard for women. He asserts that Islam profoundly honors and elevates the status of women, ensuring they receive due respect, care, and protection within the family structure and society.

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Originally published by Republika in Indonesian. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.