Ráchel Šoltésová: Postpartum depression surprised me, I felt immense guilt and sadness
Translated from Slovak, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.
TLDR
- Slovak actress Ráchel Šoltésová candidly shared her experience with postpartum depression in a recent interview.
- She described feeling surprised by the intense feelings of guilt and sadness after giving birth, initially believing she was 'broken' for not immediately bonding with her child.
- Šoltésová encourages vulnerability, urging parents to speak openly about such struggles to combat the stigma and isolation often associated with postpartum mental health challenges.
In a society that often expects new mothers to radiate joy, Slovak actress Ráchel Šoltésová has bravely broken the silence surrounding postpartum depression, offering a raw and relatable account of her own battle. Known for her roles in popular series like 'Dunaj' and 'Sľub,' Šoltésová revealed in the 'Closer Talks' program that the emotional aftermath of childbirth was a profound shock.
"I thought I was broken because I couldn't enjoy my child," Šoltésová confessed, detailing the overwhelming guilt and sadness that consumed her. She described a period where she feared she would "forever be unhappy," a sentiment that highlights the isolating nature of postpartum mental health struggles. Her experience underscores a critical point: the societal pressure to appear happy can prevent mothers from seeking the help and support they desperately need.
We talk too little about postpartum depression. I myself didn't understand what was happening at first – I thought I was broken because I couldn't enjoy my child. I believed that I would be unhappy forever.
Šoltésová's willingness to share her vulnerability is a powerful call to action. She implores parents to overcome the fear of judgment – the "you wanted this, you have a healthy child, so you should be happy" narrative – and to voice their negative feelings. By encouraging open dialogue, she aims to dismantle the stigma that forces many to suffer in silence, preventing the "explosion" that can occur when negative emotions are suppressed. Her story, shared through the 'Closer Talks' video format by Closer magazine, serves as a vital reminder that mental well-being is paramount, especially during the transformative period of new parenthood.
People are afraid of reactions from others like – you wanted this, you have a healthy child, so you should be happy. Then they keep negative feelings to themselves and at one moment it explodes.
Originally published by SME in Slovak. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.