School cones: Teachers' union says gifts aren't the most important thing

As approximately 172,000 children in North Rhine-Westphalia prepare to start school in early September, the VBE teachers' union has urged parents to resist the pressure of filling school cones with elaborate gifts. The union stated that the size, cost, or quantity of presents does not measure a parent's affection for their child.

"The school cone is a personal gesture, not a competition," explained Anne Deimel, the state chairwoman of the VBE. "A good start to school should not depend on the size of one's wallet." While acknowledging that sweets are a common addition, Deimel suggested that practical items for school life are also valuable. She highlighted that a personal letter from parents or guardians, offering good wishes, is often the most cherished gift.

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The school cone is a personal gesture and not a competition. A good start to school should not be a matter of the wallet.

The union emphasized that the first day of school significantly influences a child's sense of security and belonging. "It is therefore crucial to take the time to convey to them that school is enjoyable and that they are accepted for who they are," Deimel added. The first day marks a pivotal moment, initiating a new phase of learning and development.

Children need confidence, reliable relationships, and the assurance that they are welcome, trusted, and allowed to learn at their own pace, according to the VBE. The union's message aims to alleviate parental anxiety and refocus attention on creating a positive and supportive environment for young students entering the educational system.

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It is therefore crucial to take the time to convey to them that school is enjoyable and that they are accepted for who they are.