Sharing motivational words while struggling is not hypocrisy, advice column says

A reader's dilemma about sharing motivational content on social media while navigating personal struggles has been addressed by the advice column "Yang Serba Salah." The reader expressed sadness after a friend accused them of hypocrisy for posting motivational words despite facing personal turmoil.

The column reassured the reader that sharing motivational words with the hope of benefiting others is not hypocritical. It emphasized that no human is perfect and everyone is on a journey of learning and self-improvement. The advice provided highlights that even while facing challenges, individuals can still share knowledge and positive messages that may offer strength to others.

Key advice included ensuring that sharing is done with the sincere intention of benefiting others, rather than appearing superior. The column stressed that personal struggles are a normal part of life, and individuals should not view themselves negatively for sharing positive thoughts. It also noted that motivational posts can often serve as personal reminders for the person sharing them, acting as a form of self-therapy.

"Yang Serba Salah" also advised readers to accept that life is a test and that it is okay to feel uncertain at times. It reminded them that they are human, not robots, and have the right to feel weak, rest, and rise again. The column concluded by encouraging individuals to prioritize their own well-being alongside helping others, ensuring they take time to rest and seek support to recover their spirits.