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Taiwanese Star Ai Ya Details Breastfeeding Struggles and New Motherhood Challenges

From Liberty Times · () Chinese

Translated from Chinese, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.

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  • Taiwanese celebrity Ai Ya (Zhang Aiya) shared her raw experiences as a new mother after a C-section.
  • She emphasized the challenges of breastfeeding, the importance of her husband's support, and the mental toll of "mom guilt."
  • Ai Ya, an ambassador for International Breastfeeding Week, encourages mothers to be gentle with themselves during the demanding journey of motherhood.

Taiwanese celebrity Ai Ya, also known as Zhang Aiya, has candidly shared the intense realities of new motherhood following a Cesarean section, particularly focusing on the challenges of breastfeeding. Now an ambassador for International Breastfeeding Week, she spoke about her journey with "Mama & Baby Magazine."

I kept telling myself, if I have breast milk, I'll try my best.

โ€” Ai YaDescribing her determination to breastfeed despite the pain from her C-section.

Ai Ya, who welcomed her son "Tiao Tiao" in February, described the physical pain of her C-section wound even as she endured the discomfort of initiating breastfeeding just a day later. She recounted a particularly memorable moment when her husband was astonished by how hot her milk was, highlighting the physical demands of lactation. "I kept telling myself, if I have breast milk, I'll try my best," she said, emphasizing her determination despite the pain.

After becoming a mother, many things cannot wait.

โ€” Ai YaReflecting on how motherhood changed her priorities and sense of urgency.

The new mother also spoke about the significant mental and emotional adjustments. She noted that pregnancy fundamentally changed her thought process, shifting priorities to her child. "After becoming a mother, many things cannot wait," she explained, describing parenting as a continuous series of challenges requiring immediate attention. Her husband's unwavering sense of responsibility was a key factor in her decision to marry him, and she stressed the importance of a partner having a "shoulder to lean on."

The most important thing is to have a sense of responsibility.

โ€” Ai YaExplaining why she chose her husband, emphasizing his reliability.

Addressing the pressures new mothers face, Ai Ya identified "mom guilt" โ€“ the internal anxiety of not doing enough โ€“ as a major struggle. She credits her husband's constant reassurance, telling her she was already doing a great job, as a vital support system. As she navigates her own experience and her role as an ambassador, Ai Ya's message to fellow parents is one of self-compassion: "While growing up with the child, don't forget to gently accompany yourself."

While growing up with the child, don't forget to gently accompany yourself.

โ€” Ai YaHer message to other parents as an ambassador for International Breastfeeding Week.
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Originally published by Liberty Times in Chinese. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.