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The health benefits of a six-second kiss with your partner

From Tempo · () Indonesian

Translated from Indonesian, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.

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  • Kissing for six seconds can strengthen emotional bonds and reduce stress, according to a sex therapist.
  • The act releases hormones like oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin, and endorphins, promoting happiness and well-being.
  • Regular kissing can also positively impact the immune system and reduce allergy responses.

A simple kiss can offer significant benefits beyond expressing affection, according to sex and relationship therapist Christine Rafe. Beyond the immediate feeling of happiness, kissing triggers biological reactions that positively affect both physical and mental health.

When individuals kiss a partner they feel comfortable and emotionally connected with, their brains release chemicals associated with pleasure, closeness, and bonding. Key hormones released include oxytocin, known as the "love hormone" for fostering security and connection; dopamine, linked to pleasure and satisfaction; serotonin, which helps stabilize mood; and endorphins, acting as natural stress relievers.

Kissing also helps the body relax by lowering cortisol levels, the stress hormone. Reduced cortisol calms the nervous system, stabilizes blood pressure, and promotes overall comfort. Rafe emphasizes that emotionally connected kissing is vital for maintaining intimacy in relationships, whether new or long-standing.

Research suggests kissing may even benefit the immune system. A Dutch study found that a 10-second kiss can transfer millions of beneficial bacteria between partners. Additionally, Japanese research indicates kissing might reduce certain allergic responses by influencing the body's defense mechanisms.

The Gottman Institute suggests that a six-second kiss is sufficient to strengthen emotional bonds. This duration, longer than a quick peck, enhances the release of bonding hormones, reduces stress, and maintains mutual attraction. However, Rafe stresses that the quality of the kiss matters most. Truly present, unhurried kisses elicit stronger emotional and biological responses than routine pecks.

Berciuman selama enam detik disebut sudah cukup untuk membantu memperkuat hubungan emosional pasangan.

โ€” Christine RafeReferencing research on the ideal duration for a beneficial kiss.
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Originally published by Tempo in Indonesian. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.