This Elul, Israel's government should ask forgiveness from the citizens it has wronged - opinion

The month of Elul, the final month of the Hebrew calendar, is presented as a critical period for introspection, review, and repair, according to this opinion piece. Unlike other months that may feature specific holidays, Elul is characterized by its unique position between the old and new years, offering a time to reflect on the past and prepare for the future.

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Elul is not only meant for review; more importantly, it is meant for repair, as we “balance our books” prior to setting our sights on Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, and the entire year ahead.

The author argues that true repentance, or teshuva, requires more than just fasting and prayer; it necessitates the mending of interpersonal relationships. This process begins with seeking forgiveness from fellow human beings on an individual level. It involves humbly admitting errors and pleading for reconciliation before the High Holy Days commence.

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We must first seek the forgiveness of our fellow human beings on an individual, personal level, humbling ourselves by admitting our errors and pleading for reconciliation long before the shofar sounds or before the Kol Nidre is uttered.

The piece stresses that acknowledging wrongdoing and sincerely saying "I'm sorry" can be daunting but is essential for repairing fractured relationships. It draws a parallel to King David's accountability for his transgressions, setting a paradigm for leaders to show humility and appeal for mercy. As another Israeli election looms, the author implores the government to apply this principle and seek forgiveness from the citizens it has wronged.

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Saying “I’m sorry” may be just two little words, but admitting you were wrong and saying it out loud – and sincerely – can fill you with fear and trepidation.