Psychologist: Frequent Hobby Changes Are Normal for Child Development

Parents should embrace their children's frequent changes in hobbies and interests, viewing it as a crucial and healthy part of their developmental journey. Child and family psychologist Ayoe Sutomo emphasizes that this exploration phase, particularly before the age of 10, is vital for children to discover their potential without undue pressure.

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Actually, when we talk about a child's talent, it cannot be rushed. Because up to the age of 10, it is time for the child to explore. It is not yet time for them to focus only on one thing. Don't rush too much.

"Actually, when we talk about a child's talent, it cannot be rushed. Because up to the age of 10, it is time for the child to explore. It is not yet time for them to focus only on one thing. Don't rush too much," Ayoe explained during the launch of the Bebelac Little Star 2026 program.

Sutomo advises parents to act as facilitators rather than directors during this period. Their role involves providing access to diverse activities, observing their child's responses, supporting emerging interests, and appreciating every small effort. This approach, she notes, helps children identify their strengths and build positive character traits.

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Facilitation, observation, support, and appreciation. That's what can be done from the stages of searching for a child's strengths. Don't forget to give appreciation for every step taken. All of it must be appreciated.

Singer Sherina shared her own experience, recalling how her parents allowed her the freedom to try various activities like drawing, ballet, and singing. She described the process as enjoyable and exploratory, not career-driven. "I believe there is no single path for every child to find their potential. My own journey began with the opportunity to try different things and full support from my family," Sherina stated.

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Exploration is not just about finding talent, but helping children learn to know themselves and build positive character. When children try many things, they learn what they like and what they don't. That is the process of self-discovery.

The emphasis is on fostering emotional safety, allowing children to try new things without fear of judgment for failure. This environment encourages genuine self-discovery and helps children learn about their preferences and dislikes, ultimately contributing to a stronger sense of self. The process is not always smooth, but parental support in navigating challenges is key to nurturing a child's unique potential.

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I felt the process was like playing and I enjoyed it. I didn't consider it a career, but rather a time to explore by trying various things.