Should I Put My Parents or My Husband First?
Translated from Malay and summarized by DistantNews. Read the original for the full story.
At a glance
- A woman living with her parents after marriage says a conflict has left her husband and mother unwilling to speak to each other.
- She fears being seen as a disobedient daughter and worries that her husband will become distant.
A woman who moved in with her parents after marriage because of financial constraints says she has become caught between her husband and her mother.
The conflict has caused the two of them to stop speaking. She fears that taking her husbandโs side could make her appear to be an unfilial daughter, while failing to support him could drive him away.
Writing under the name โThe Confused One,โ she asks how she should respond to the tension between her family responsibilities and her marriage.
Originally published by Utusan Malaysia in Malay. Translated, summarized, and contextualized automatically by DistantNews, with a note on how the source frames the story. Not individually reviewed before publishing. How this works.