Taiwanese Relationship Expert Reveals Revenge Affair After Husband's Infidelity
Translated from Chinese, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.
At a glance
- Taiwanese relationship expert Windy reveals her 23-year marriage to American husband Shane faced a major crisis five years ago when he had an affair.
- Windy confessed she sought revenge by giving her "first night" to another man, an American acquaintance named Joe, to hurt her husband.
- She stated this act was not to destroy her husband but to heal her own pain and allow them to continue their relationship.
Taiwanese relationship expert Windy has disclosed a significant challenge in her 23-year marriage to American husband Shane, revealing he had an affair five years ago. The couple is currently working to repair their relationship.
Windy, known for openly sharing her experiences, recounted how she pursued Shane for three years during their student days before he moved to Beijing. While in China, Shane had a one-night stand, which he later confessed to Windy. Although they were not officially dating at the time, Windy felt immense pain and jealousy.
He hurt me, so I want to hurt him too; I hurt, he must hurt with me.
In a bid for revenge, Windy decided to give her "first night" to Joe, an American acquaintance who was with her in Taiwan. She explained her motivation was to inflict similar pain on Shane, stating, "He hurt me, so I want to hurt him too; I hurt, he must hurt with me." After this act, she confessed to Shane, relishing his shocked and disappointed reaction, which she felt brought balance to their relationship.
Windy emphasized that this act of revenge was not intended to destroy Shane but to help her own heart heal. She believes that by experiencing and inflicting pain, she could eventually move past the hurt and continue to love him willingly.
You hurt me, I want to hurt you too; I hurt, you must hurt with me, one time each, learn from each other.
Originally published by Liberty Times in Chinese. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.