TikTok's '777 rule' offers dating advice for relationships
Translated from Icelandic, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.
At a glance
- A TikTok trend called the '777 rule' suggests couples go on dates weekly.
- The rule also proposes spending a night away every seven weeks and a romantic trip every seven months.
- Experts are divided, with some seeing value in prioritizing relationships and others cautioning against rigid rules.
A trend on the social media platform TikTok, known as the '777 rule,' is gaining popularity for its advice on maintaining romantic relationships. The rule suggests that couples should aim for a weekly date night, spend a night away from home every seven weeks, and embark on a romantic getaway every seven months. While the catchy, number-based guideline is easy to remember, its effectiveness is debated among relationship experts. Some family counselors acknowledge that such a structured approach can serve as a helpful reminder for busy couples to prioritize their relationship and plan quality time together. The novelty of changing routines, like going on dates or taking trips, can indeed be beneficial. However, other specialists caution against imposing strict, formal rules on relationships, emphasizing that flexibility is key to healthy partnerships. They point out that the '777 rule' lacks scientific backing and may not be realistic for everyone, particularly those with financial constraints or young children. Furthermore, experts suggest that while the rule might encourage connection, it is unlikely to resolve complex relationship issues. The number seven itself, with its cultural significance in days of the week and continents, likely contributes to the rule's memorability and appeal in the realm of popular psychology.
It is more likely that the number itself is simply memorable, cool and easy to remember in fashion psychology.
Originally published by Morgunblaรฐiรฐ in Icelandic. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.