Dagens Nyheter: Stop Mocking Henry Cavill's Dating Tips – He's Right

In a piece for Dagens Nyheter's editorial pages, Lisa Magnusson offers a spirited defense of actor Henry Cavill's straightforward approach to dating, which has been widely mocked online. Cavill's advice, "If you like her, just ask her out. It always works for me," has been met with derision, with critics implying it only works for attractive, famous men. Magnusson contends that this reaction stems from a fundamental misunderstanding of attraction and relationships.

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If you like her, just ask her out. It always works for me.

Magnusson, writing from an independent liberal standpoint, argues that the prevailing notion that love is inherently difficult is a modern fallacy. This misconception, she suggests, has led to a distorted view where courtship is seen as a battle to overcome resistance, rather than a simple expression of interest. The idea that one must "win" someone over or persistently pursue them, even against their initial disinterest, is presented as a tragic impediment to forming authentic connections.

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If you want something, just buy it.

She critiques the modern emphasis on "independence" which discourages genuine desire and need for others, creating confusion and resentment. Magnusson calls for a return to clarity, asserting that underlying interest is rarely ambiguous. She dismisses excuses like being "bad at texting" or "afraid of love," stating that a simple invitation is never a deterrent. From a Swedish perspective, where directness is often valued, Magnusson's piece champions a refreshingly uncomplicated view of human connection, contrasting with what she sees as overly complicated and performative modern dating rituals.

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Paint away!