Father's Love: Spanish Footballer Grows Hair So Autistic Son Can Recognize Him
Translated from Croatian, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.
At a glance
- Spanish footballer Marc Cucurella grows his hair long as a way for his autistic son, Mateo, to easily recognize him on the field.
- Cucurella and his partner, Claudia Rodriguez, have navigated significant challenges raising Mateo, their eldest of three children, who was diagnosed with autism.
- The footballer's personal struggles, including his son's diagnosis and his own performance dips, were highlighted in a documentary, revealing his vulnerability.
Spanish footballer Marc Cucurella's distinctive long, curly hair, often held back by a simple band, is more than just a style choice; it's a profound gesture of paternal love. This unique hairstyle serves as a beacon for his eldest son, Mateo, who has autism. Cucurella intentionally grows his hair so Mateo can more easily identify him amidst the constant movement of players on the football pitch.
He would spend two or three hours at school and hate it. We would have to go pick him up. It affects you too, you see that your child is not well, and you don't know how to help him.
This simple yet powerful act symbolizes a life transformed for Cucurella and his long-term partner, Claudia Rodriguez. Their journey with their three children, Mateo, Rio, and Bella, has been marked by significant challenges, fears, and ultimately, victories celebrated away from the public eye. When Cucurella steps onto the field, he carries not only his club's jersey but also the immense love and dedication of a father engaged in a dual battle: the visible one on the sports field and the private one shielded from public view.
The couple first noticed signs that Mateo was different when he was just over a year old. He avoided eye contact, didn't respond to his name, and his speech development lagged behind his peers. This led to a period of confusion and uncertainty, with doctors suggesting Mateo was too young for a definitive diagnosis while Cucurella was building his career at Brighton. The situation intensified when Mateo struggled to adapt to a mainstream school, experiencing constant distress and crying, which deeply affected his parents.
Every day we would take him to school, and I was pregnant with Rio at the time. And every day we would come home crying.
Claudia described those months as the worst of their lives, recounting how they would take Mateo to school daily while she was pregnant with their second child, Rio, only to return home in tears. The diagnosis of autism finally came during a period of immense professional pressure for Cucurella, following his high-profile transfer to Chelsea. His on-field performance suffered, leading to immense pressure to justify the transfer fee, while simultaneously, the family grappled with understanding and supporting Mateo. This raw vulnerability was shared with the public in a documentary for Amazon Prime, where Cucurella candidly spoke about his struggles.
Football wasn't going well for me. At the same time, we didn't know how to help our son.
Originally published by Veฤernji List in Croatian. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.