I do the cooking at home, not my wife — Banky W

In a candid conversation on The Teju Baby Face Show, Nigerian singer and pastor Banky W shed light on his domestic arrangements, revealing that he is the primary cook in his household. He shared that his wife, actress Adesua Etomi-Wellington, does not cook regularly, a dynamic he views not as a compromise but as a natural fit for their relationship. Banky W articulated that their arrangement works for them, and external opinions on who should perform domestic chores are secondary to their mutual understanding and happiness. He stressed the importance of couples defining their own expectations and rules, rather than adhering to societal norms or external pressures. The singer also drew a parallel between his willingness to cook and his wife's immense sacrifices during their challenging journey with In Vitro Fertilization (IVF). He recounted Adesua's resilience through multiple IVF cycles, enduring physical and emotional strain, which, in his view, makes acts of service like cooking feel natural and easy for him. This perspective highlights a modern approach to marital roles, prioritizing partnership, mutual respect, and shared understanding over traditional gender expectations. It's a narrative that resonates deeply within Nigerian society, where conversations around evolving gender roles and the pressures of marriage continue to be prominent.

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There are some men, my wife must cook for me. My wife does not really cook, which she can cook very well, but it’s not her thing.