Woman expresses no regret marrying Rohingya man, despite societal criticism
Translated from Malay, summarized and contextualized by DistantNews.
At a glance
- A 36-year-old Malaysian woman expresses no regret marrying a Rohingya man, despite societal criticism, and is happy with their six children.
- The couple married in 2008, and their children, aged four to 16, all possess birth certificates and identity cards.
- Their lives changed when the husband, who has a UNHCR card, was detained in October, leaving the wife to support the family by selling cakes and receiving government aid.
Intan, a 36-year-old Malaysian woman, states she has never regretted marrying a Rohingya man, even while facing societal criticism. She expressed happiness and gratitude for their six children, aged between four and 16, all of whom have official documentation.
We married in 2008 and now have six children aged between four and 16. All children have birth certificates and identity cards.
The couple married in 2008 after meeting at work in Alor Setar. Intan's husband, who came to Malaysia as an infant with his parents, has lived in the country for a long time, speaks the Kedah dialect fluently, and previously worked in food service and as a grass cutter. Intan mentioned that her family approved of the marriage, knowing her husband to be a good and responsible person.
Husband has a UNHCR card and was informed he can only be released after the UNHCR process is completed.
Their situation changed significantly in October when her husband was detained and sent to the Belantik Immigration Depot in Sik. Intan explained that her husband holds a UNHCR card and can only be released after his case is processed by the UNHCR.
Sad to see him working every weekend until late at night and will work on weekdays if called by the employer.
Currently, Intan supports her family by selling cakes and receives RM1,000 monthly from the Social Welfare Department. Her eldest child also helps by working at a food stall after school, often working late into the night and on weekends. Despite the challenges and societal judgment, Intan remains steadfast in her decision, emphasizing her husband's responsibility and her belief that their union was destined.
I ignore the sideways glances towards the Rohingya ethnic group because for me, my husband is responsible, and I have never regretted marrying him because it was fate.
Originally published by Utusan Malaysia in Malay. Translated, summarized, and contextualized by our editorial team with added local perspective. Read our editorial standards.