It's reality, don't feel guilty for scolding your child - Intan Najuwa

As a mother navigating the complexities of raising a child in today's world, I find Intan Najuwa's candid reflections on discipline to be incredibly validating. It's easy to fall into the trap of guilt when we have to be firm with our little ones, but Najuwa rightly points out that this is not a sign of failure, but rather a crucial aspect of responsible parenting.

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Mestilah pernah marah, setiap hari. Saya seorang ibu yang tegas dan garang. Bila saya cakap tidak, memang benar-benar tidak boleh.

Her emphasis on teaching children about boundaries and the reality that not all desires can be met immediately is vital. This approach, starting from infancy, helps cultivate respect and understanding. It’s about guiding them towards becoming well-adjusted individuals who understand the importance of rules and consequences, rather than simply indulging every whim.

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Sejujurnya, kalau kita marahkan anak, itu tak bermakna kita adalah seorang ibu yang tidak baik. Itu memang sebahagian daripada tugas seorang ibu. Kita mendidik, membimbing, dan membetulkan mereka dengan cara sendiri.

Furthermore, Najuwa's foresight in preparing her daughter for future independence, even in her absence, is commendable. This proactive parenting ensures that children develop resilience and self-sufficiency. It's a tough love that stems from a deep desire for their long-term well-being, a sentiment many mothers can relate to.

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Ini bukan soal nak jadi kasar atau garang, tetapi realiti kehidupan dan saya nak dia bersedia.

Ultimately, Najuwa's message is one of balance. The key lies in harmonizing strictness with affection, ensuring that discipline is delivered with love and a clear intention for the child's growth. This nuanced approach, which she herself practices, is what truly defines effective and caring motherhood.

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Semuanya adalah tentang keseimbangan antara kasih sayang dan disiplin, kedua-duanya sama penting.